i'm still trying to get bob to feel at ease here. he is out from under the couch most of the time and last night he slept on the love seat instead of under the couch! he is poking into everything, thoroughly checking out every little nook. he isn't afraid of anything, just cautious. he comes right up to me and , nose to nose, but he still doesn't want picked up and so i am letting him come to me on his terms, but it's hard not to want to cuddle him. s