Saturday, June 03, 2006

a bunch of us took our cars
(yes, funny that i belong to a car club and don't drive often or far)
to a reunion of a grade school, long gone, but fondly remembered
by the senior citizens that attended it those many years ago.
we get invited every june and every year we go, steve(hollo) cooks
hotdogs and sometimes deer meat as well. this year he had smoked trout
to go along with the hot dogs.everyone brings something to add to their little picnic and we say hi, look at all the old photos they bring. they tell stories of the school and the coal mines and we get our group photos taken by a sweet and feisty lady named mary, who calls us "chicky baby" whenever she needs one of us to go do or see something!
every year tho, there are less and less of the old grade schoolers there. that's sad
but they have a true sense of community, something that was lacking in the big school district i attended or the town i grew up in. there's good and bad i think, in a small community like that. you live, with however you were labeled as or thought of in school and can not break free of that, for good or bad, no matter what the realities of your life since then. s

4 comments:

QUASAR9 said...

Never been in one place to be in that situation. Funny I always missed it, because I saw the upside of those who stayed and grew in one place. Me being me never contemplated the down side of being surrounded always by the same high school ideas or opinions of someone, well not the worse ones anyway. But life is full of memories, (most even forgotten). But I guess some 'must' get stuck going over the same memories good & bad with the same people. Q

Sherry Pasquarello said...

small towns can be a blessing or a curse, depending. every situation, well, almost ever situation has a good and a bad attached to it. it's up to the person to make of it what they will.

it isn't easy being labeled, that much i do know, wether the labels are good or bad, they are usually one dementional and confining, at times quite painful and hard to live up to, or live down.

QUASAR9 said...

Yep, the grass is always greener on the otherside syndrome. Many a time I have heard say, oh but you must have some stories to tell, to which I would think in my mind, but I do not have yours to tell.

Sherry Pasquarello said...

i have learned many things sitting and watching.

i grew up as an observer.as i said, i couldn't participate in a lot of childhood activities and having been ill, i learned to watch people to see if they were friend or foe (as in doctors and nurses or regular people)

it comes in handy now, as a poet.