well, the funeral is over. there were so many people over the last two days.
because tommy (my sister's husband) died on good friday and because they were not sure if he could be an organ donor because of an odd muscle disease he had years and years ago, the viewing was monday(he was cremated) and the funeral yesterday.

the car club we all belong to showed up with their cars and it was an impressive thing. i think he would have loved that even tho he was basically a very quiet guy around most people.

i feel a sense of relief that now the healing process can really begin because the shock is beginning to wear off.

but, as with any death, things change sometimes in unexpected ways. this is life.

thanks for the good thoughts and prayers and special things from everyone.
tommy was only 55 and my sister is now a widow at 52 (in a few months)

and we move on...