i forgot to mention that the owls club scholarship luncheon was held last sunday. i'm so so proud of that scholarship program.

i didn't attend this year. i missed going, but i was just too tired to make small talk with the winners and their families. congrats to all of the winers and to the owls members that are always so giving of money and effort to keep this program going!

as you know, the things that come with a death are time consuming and draining. my sister in law is a wiz at paperwork and so she is moving right along. me? really all i have to do now is finish the thank you notes for the masses and flowers that i have to do and that's it.

getting used to the hole in the fabric of family is much harder and takes far longer that looking up address and sending a few cards.